Is love crime ??

Why we are always shy to admit that we are in love? Why we always wait for others to ask in a situation you to declare? Why love is a crime while discussing with family and friends? Is it since we feel love is a felony?

When love becomes a love marriage proposal, it is not loved, but it's a war.




The questions and criticism that arise from family are:

What does he/she do? Where is he/she from? How much he/she earns? Is he/she fair or black? Is he/she not good-looking? Where will they live after marriage? What his/her father does? Isn't the company he/she working for a small organization?  Isn't he a United States Groom? Did he do his/her post-graduate? Does she cook? How long will they remain in love? 

In southern India, couple's families will receive the most criticism. 

What his/her caste? Will he/she adjust to our family formalities? Will the couple & family agree to do all rituals during marriage? Are you going to reveal the groom/bride's caste? 

Inter religion marriages' criticism is the ultimate, and the questions are: 

In which way the marriage will happen? Is she/he converted to our religion? Will the marriage happen in the temple/church/mosque? How he/she scandalized the family's name suddenly but she/he was a well-known person in all religious activities? 

Even after all these questions, are we still patient enough to hear more?
If we worry about so many reasons in life can we be really happy? After thinking all these, are we still at peace?


The reason behind all these decisions is love, and the decision is between two partners who are going to live their lives together then who are we to be so judgmental?

Have we ever found true love? Do we really understand love? Do we practice compassion?
Do we live life happily before others? Are we matured enough to judge other’s love?

Shouldn't we ask the questions to ourselves first ???

Ultimately the decision of being together for lovers should be left to them. If they are legal adults, they understand the consequences of love marriage. At the end of the day, they could be as wrong or as right as we are in our life. Stop talking nonsense/gossiping about them to others. If we look at it from a larger perspective, Are we perfect, have we led the perfect life? Nobody can live life in a particular way and can be of in particular status or personality. Can two persons love seeing a person's caste & religion?

Most of the time people are more judgemental. This is when we miss the essence of love. The essence of love is to just be. The rest is all waste of time and idleness of the mind.  The mind has nothing better to miss out on and acts as big bully. It tells us what to do, instead of how to feel. So to love and feel the love, act in the way that your heart says. Love is the reason we being on the planet on earth. So let the love chill!

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